So, today Nate is 40 weeks old! Yea! He is now out of the womb as long as he was in it.
The gestation for a baby is 40 weeks, and Nate was 2 weeks late, so his gestational age was 42 weeks. Yet, I wasn't pregnant for the first 2 weeks, because gestational age is calculated by last menstrual period. The fetal age is about 2 weeks shorter, since a woman ovulates around 2 weeks following her period. Therefore, the fetal age of a baby full term is 38 weeks, but Nate was 2 weeks late, so his fetal age was 40 weeks at birth. Won't Nate love to read this when he reads this blog when he gets older ;-)
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Wednesday, April 08, 2009
Wednesday, September 03, 2008
the birth story...
Many of y'all have asked to hear about Nate's birth story. Here it is, so you are warned! Sorry it took so long...but it is done (only took me about a month to write)! I probably forgot a few details, and Ry probably has a totally different perspective on it all!
Nate was due on June 19, but didn't arrive until July 2. We were going on almost daily check-ups that last week. On Monday, June 30 I was admitted to the hospital due to high blood pressure. The nurse asked if we wanted to be induced that night. My doc's wife's birthday was that day, so we decided to wait (since he would not be on call). We were there a few hours, and everything turned out okay, so we were released.
I got a call from my doc on July 1, since my enzyme levels were high (but still in the normal range), and he wanted to check me again. We went to the office, and my blood pressure was still high. Again to the hospital and the nurse was convinced I would be admitted. My enzyme levels stayed the same, so it was our decision to stay or head home. I asked the nurse if I could get some food (it was 1 pm by then and I had only a small breakfast) and she said no. That was the decision - we left and had a big lunch!
On Wednesday, July 2 we arrived at the hospital around 5:45 am to be induced. Since I had been there the past 2 days, we found out where the nice birthing room was (room 2) and requested it. It had great windows - with trees outside. You felt that you were in a treehouse. Luckily it was open and we got it! They started with the IV, and about 7:30 am my doc arrived and we started the pitocin. The contractions started - about every 2-3 minutes. My friend Sharon had given me the idea to offer each contraction for a specific intention. It was a great way to offer up the pain and pray for our friends and family. At this point I was still at 2 cm and 75% effaced. I also had a blood pressure cuff on that went off every 15 minutes.
A little later my doc came in and discussed breaking my water. We really didn't want to go that route, but since I hadn't dilated any more, he was concerned. He also wanted to use an internal monitor to see if the pitocin was causing strong enough contractions. We put him off, but by 11:30 am we gave in and he broke the bag of waters. At that point, my contractions immediately intensified. I couldn't focus any more on prayer intentions, and was even cursing Eve for bringing women painful labor with the fall of man! I couldn't seem to relax at all for my body to work.
About 1 pm I think I was checked at was up to 3 cm. The contractions were soo difficult. It was a very hard decision, but we decided for me to get an epidural. With taking the Bradley classes, and wanting to do things natural, it was a very hard for us to make. At that point, I felt I was not allowing my body to relax and dilate. I was worried I wouldn't have the energy left for pushing. I had the epidural at 1:30 pm and it worked immediately. I was like a different person. I could feel some pressure, and my legs were numb, tingly and cold, but I was finally able to relax. I did feel quite awkward, because now I had the IV, epidural, blood pressure cuff, internal fetal monitor and catheter. There were tubes coming out all over me. At one point I even had an oxygen mask too!
My mom, brother and sister were waiting at my house with my in-law's. I told Ry to call them and invite them to come. They came down, and Justin and Danielle joined them. It was good we had the big room now. It was great to have them around, and help distract me and chat. They had fun watching the monitor to see how often and how strong my contractions were.
About 4 pm my doc came in again. I think by now I was up to 4 cm, but still not progressing as I should (you should be dilating 1 cm an hour). Also I had been in labor for 8 1/2 hours. He discussed the possibility of a c-section. We wanted to wait.
He came back around 6, and I wasn't progressing. Talked about a c-section again. Neither I or the baby was in distress. He was just concerned about being on the pitocin so long. Decided to wait a couple more hours.
By 8 pm we had to make a decision. I really didn't want a c-section. Seems like all the women I knew (mom, grandma, aunt, cousin) went natural. I felt that I was cheating my labor, cheating my birth experience. But, my doc really thought it was important - that the pitocin may stop working after awhile, and it wouldn't help me post-birth. At this point I thought, I had don't everything so "non-Bradley" what was one more thing. I didn't realize until later how scared Ry was. He was soo afraid something would happen to me.
The family went to stay in the waiting room. They tell me they played dominos to distract themselves and Terri was praying the rosary.
At 8:30 pm I was wheeled into the operating room. There were 3 sets of support staff and nurses there - one for me, one for the baby, and one to assist the doc. They were all surprised that we didn't know the gender. Almost everyone thought the baby was a girl. Ry was able to come in, and sat next to me. We couldn't see what was going on. One of the nurses was taking photos for us, which was nice.
After some strange sensations and tugging, our child emerged from my stomach - at 9:17 pm. Ry saw the gender, but I could not. They then told him, "tell her". He said it was a boy. Everyone asked what his name was. Before seeing him I blurted, "Nathan James". Ry went when they cleaned him up, and then they brought him to me. I only saw him for a few moments, and then he and Ry were off to the nursery. He was able to carry him down the hall and the family was able to meet Nate right away.
Once Ry left, I started hyperventilating. I've been told that after you have a c-section, they actually have to remove your uterus from your body to stitch it up. I was not feeling well at all, and actually threw up. My doc then said, "Relax Alexis!". I stopped and the next thing I remember was waking up in the recovery room.
Ry and my mom came first. They kept telling me how beautiful Nathan was. But his temperature was low, so he had to stay in the nursery until it rose. Jim and Terri then came, then Stephen and Tessa, and lastly Justin and Danielle. Finally Ry returned and they brought him in. It was now over an hour since he was delivered. He went to my chest and tried to nurse. Within a few moments we were then moved to our post-partum room. The fam came in for a few moments and then left us alone to be a family.
My experience was nothing than I expected or planned for. I never would have thought I would get an epidural, or even a c-section. I had to keep reminding myself that my doc had my and Nate's best interests at heart. And that is all that mattered.
Ry probably has a little different experience...probably need to get him to write his down too!
Here are a few pics from that great day - July 2, 2008!
the parents-to-be
in labor and delivery, after the epidural
the waiting room
Welcome to the world, Nathan James Dobson
Nate getting cleaned up
Mom anxiously awaiting to meet her son
Meeting Mom for the first time
the family, just moments after Nate was delivered
Our complete family
Nate was due on June 19, but didn't arrive until July 2. We were going on almost daily check-ups that last week. On Monday, June 30 I was admitted to the hospital due to high blood pressure. The nurse asked if we wanted to be induced that night. My doc's wife's birthday was that day, so we decided to wait (since he would not be on call). We were there a few hours, and everything turned out okay, so we were released.
I got a call from my doc on July 1, since my enzyme levels were high (but still in the normal range), and he wanted to check me again. We went to the office, and my blood pressure was still high. Again to the hospital and the nurse was convinced I would be admitted. My enzyme levels stayed the same, so it was our decision to stay or head home. I asked the nurse if I could get some food (it was 1 pm by then and I had only a small breakfast) and she said no. That was the decision - we left and had a big lunch!
On Wednesday, July 2 we arrived at the hospital around 5:45 am to be induced. Since I had been there the past 2 days, we found out where the nice birthing room was (room 2) and requested it. It had great windows - with trees outside. You felt that you were in a treehouse. Luckily it was open and we got it! They started with the IV, and about 7:30 am my doc arrived and we started the pitocin. The contractions started - about every 2-3 minutes. My friend Sharon had given me the idea to offer each contraction for a specific intention. It was a great way to offer up the pain and pray for our friends and family. At this point I was still at 2 cm and 75% effaced. I also had a blood pressure cuff on that went off every 15 minutes.
A little later my doc came in and discussed breaking my water. We really didn't want to go that route, but since I hadn't dilated any more, he was concerned. He also wanted to use an internal monitor to see if the pitocin was causing strong enough contractions. We put him off, but by 11:30 am we gave in and he broke the bag of waters. At that point, my contractions immediately intensified. I couldn't focus any more on prayer intentions, and was even cursing Eve for bringing women painful labor with the fall of man! I couldn't seem to relax at all for my body to work.
About 1 pm I think I was checked at was up to 3 cm. The contractions were soo difficult. It was a very hard decision, but we decided for me to get an epidural. With taking the Bradley classes, and wanting to do things natural, it was a very hard for us to make. At that point, I felt I was not allowing my body to relax and dilate. I was worried I wouldn't have the energy left for pushing. I had the epidural at 1:30 pm and it worked immediately. I was like a different person. I could feel some pressure, and my legs were numb, tingly and cold, but I was finally able to relax. I did feel quite awkward, because now I had the IV, epidural, blood pressure cuff, internal fetal monitor and catheter. There were tubes coming out all over me. At one point I even had an oxygen mask too!
My mom, brother and sister were waiting at my house with my in-law's. I told Ry to call them and invite them to come. They came down, and Justin and Danielle joined them. It was good we had the big room now. It was great to have them around, and help distract me and chat. They had fun watching the monitor to see how often and how strong my contractions were.
About 4 pm my doc came in again. I think by now I was up to 4 cm, but still not progressing as I should (you should be dilating 1 cm an hour). Also I had been in labor for 8 1/2 hours. He discussed the possibility of a c-section. We wanted to wait.
He came back around 6, and I wasn't progressing. Talked about a c-section again. Neither I or the baby was in distress. He was just concerned about being on the pitocin so long. Decided to wait a couple more hours.
By 8 pm we had to make a decision. I really didn't want a c-section. Seems like all the women I knew (mom, grandma, aunt, cousin) went natural. I felt that I was cheating my labor, cheating my birth experience. But, my doc really thought it was important - that the pitocin may stop working after awhile, and it wouldn't help me post-birth. At this point I thought, I had don't everything so "non-Bradley" what was one more thing. I didn't realize until later how scared Ry was. He was soo afraid something would happen to me.
The family went to stay in the waiting room. They tell me they played dominos to distract themselves and Terri was praying the rosary.
At 8:30 pm I was wheeled into the operating room. There were 3 sets of support staff and nurses there - one for me, one for the baby, and one to assist the doc. They were all surprised that we didn't know the gender. Almost everyone thought the baby was a girl. Ry was able to come in, and sat next to me. We couldn't see what was going on. One of the nurses was taking photos for us, which was nice.
After some strange sensations and tugging, our child emerged from my stomach - at 9:17 pm. Ry saw the gender, but I could not. They then told him, "tell her". He said it was a boy. Everyone asked what his name was. Before seeing him I blurted, "Nathan James". Ry went when they cleaned him up, and then they brought him to me. I only saw him for a few moments, and then he and Ry were off to the nursery. He was able to carry him down the hall and the family was able to meet Nate right away.
Once Ry left, I started hyperventilating. I've been told that after you have a c-section, they actually have to remove your uterus from your body to stitch it up. I was not feeling well at all, and actually threw up. My doc then said, "Relax Alexis!". I stopped and the next thing I remember was waking up in the recovery room.
Ry and my mom came first. They kept telling me how beautiful Nathan was. But his temperature was low, so he had to stay in the nursery until it rose. Jim and Terri then came, then Stephen and Tessa, and lastly Justin and Danielle. Finally Ry returned and they brought him in. It was now over an hour since he was delivered. He went to my chest and tried to nurse. Within a few moments we were then moved to our post-partum room. The fam came in for a few moments and then left us alone to be a family.
My experience was nothing than I expected or planned for. I never would have thought I would get an epidural, or even a c-section. I had to keep reminding myself that my doc had my and Nate's best interests at heart. And that is all that mattered.
Ry probably has a little different experience...probably need to get him to write his down too!
Here are a few pics from that great day - July 2, 2008!
the parents-to-be
in labor and delivery, after the epidural
the waiting room
Welcome to the world, Nathan James Dobson
Nate getting cleaned up
Mom anxiously awaiting to meet her son
Meeting Mom for the first time
the family, just moments after Nate was delivered
Our complete family
Wednesday, July 02, 2008
off to the hospital...
We are off to the hospital! Check-in is at 6, induction at 8. Not sure how long this will take, so it may be early evening or tomorrow when Ry posts something here.
Please keep all 3 of us, the doctors and nurses in your prayers! We can't meet you little pumpkin...just a few more hours!
St. Gerard, pray for us.
St. Gianna, pray for us.
Mary our Mother, pray for us.
All you saints in heaven (who aren't too busy), pray for us ;-).
Please keep all 3 of us, the doctors and nurses in your prayers! We can't meet you little pumpkin...just a few more hours!
St. Gerard, pray for us.
St. Gianna, pray for us.
Mary our Mother, pray for us.
All you saints in heaven (who aren't too busy), pray for us ;-).
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
D + 12 or I - 1...
We got to try out the amenities at the hospital yesterday... Due to being late, we had a few extra tests, especially for my rising blood pressure. I really think my doc wanted me to go since I was in such a good mood :-)
Going back in today for another test, and if there is still no progression we are on for tomorrow (6 am, really?). Then 24 hours from now I will be induced waiting for this baby to come! yea!! I can't believe it! It is almost here!
Thanks again for all of you who read this blog and pray for our family. Hopefully the hospital has wi-fi and Ry can update here soon tomorrow!
Just another day until we meet our little child, our little miracle...
Going back in today for another test, and if there is still no progression we are on for tomorrow (6 am, really?). Then 24 hours from now I will be induced waiting for this baby to come! yea!! I can't believe it! It is almost here!
Thanks again for all of you who read this blog and pray for our family. Hopefully the hospital has wi-fi and Ry can update here soon tomorrow!
Just another day until we meet our little child, our little miracle...
Monday, June 30, 2008
D + 11 or I - 2...
Okay, is this getting a little ridiculous? Sorry for my "late" posting this morning, I actually slept in. Maybe Pumpkin knows something I don't...at least we know that in 48 hours I will be in labor...
The massage was great yesterday - for all the pregnant and post-natal momma's out there, I would highly recommend it! Awesome! Then Ry took me out for Hawaiian snow cones! yum! Then some walking too! We ended the evening with a nice, romantic dinner at Chee Zee and my super husband shared a sugar-free dessert with me!
Today we are going to the doc again this afternoon. I will pack my hospital bag and hopefully be able to use it!
Here are some pics also from this past week!
41 weeks
us (me, Ry, my brother and sister) with our grandparents
me and my little brother Stephen
The massage was great yesterday - for all the pregnant and post-natal momma's out there, I would highly recommend it! Awesome! Then Ry took me out for Hawaiian snow cones! yum! Then some walking too! We ended the evening with a nice, romantic dinner at Chee Zee and my super husband shared a sugar-free dessert with me!
Today we are going to the doc again this afternoon. I will pack my hospital bag and hopefully be able to use it!
Here are some pics also from this past week!
41 weeks
us (me, Ry, my brother and sister) with our grandparents
me and my little brother Stephen
Sunday, June 29, 2008
D + 10 or I - 3...
Good morning! Pumpkin was sweet to let momma sleep in today! yea! If I could only get out of bed...now that is getting much harder!
Had fun yesterday with my mom and brother, and my family who visited from Holland (via College Station). All they wanted was Tex-Mex - so Chuy's it was! It's funny, whenever they come to visit that's what they want, and that's where we go. At least I varied it this time by going to a different location...
We also got a great blessing from our deacon yesterday at Mass...pumpkin is now all blessed and he did a special blessing the delivery and us as a couple. What peace! I just love being Catholic!!
My activity today is my pre-natal massage! I just *love* them! Ry gave me a monthly massage to one at a local center a year and a half ago, and it is wonderful. If you go, ask for Katie or Trinity - they are the best!!
My aunt, uncle and cousin went back last night to Aggieland. Today mom and Stephen are going there too to spend a couple days with my sister. A few days of an empty house will be nice... but hopefully we will not be spending it here :-)
Had fun yesterday with my mom and brother, and my family who visited from Holland (via College Station). All they wanted was Tex-Mex - so Chuy's it was! It's funny, whenever they come to visit that's what they want, and that's where we go. At least I varied it this time by going to a different location...
We also got a great blessing from our deacon yesterday at Mass...pumpkin is now all blessed and he did a special blessing the delivery and us as a couple. What peace! I just love being Catholic!!
My activity today is my pre-natal massage! I just *love* them! Ry gave me a monthly massage to one at a local center a year and a half ago, and it is wonderful. If you go, ask for Katie or Trinity - they are the best!!
My aunt, uncle and cousin went back last night to Aggieland. Today mom and Stephen are going there too to spend a couple days with my sister. A few days of an empty house will be nice... but hopefully we will not be spending it here :-)
Saturday, June 28, 2008
D + 9 or I - 4...
I never thought I would be pregnant this long, but I should have known. Today I'm over a week overdue, or should I just be tracking "I" (inducement) now? Mom was induced with me when she was 3 weeks overdue - guess it just runs in the family! Hope 7 pound babies do too!
Today, my aunt, uncle and cousin are coming to visit from Aggieland. They actually live in Holland, but are visiting my cousin who is a sophomore at A&M. Hmm...what kind of spicy food do I want?
Today also is a special day for me and Ryan. 10 years ago this very day I asked him to go on our first date - we went and played putt-putt at the course in Aggieland (and had to hit more crickets and junebugs than balls), and then talked for hours in his car at Research Park. Who would have thought 10 years later we would be waiting for the arrival of our first child? What an amazing decade we have had together! Interestingly enough Ry and I started dating then, and never even broke up - we've been together since.
You are my best friend sweetie - I couldn't imagine my life without you! Thanks again for going out with me 10 years ago!! I love you!!
Today, my aunt, uncle and cousin are coming to visit from Aggieland. They actually live in Holland, but are visiting my cousin who is a sophomore at A&M. Hmm...what kind of spicy food do I want?
Today also is a special day for me and Ryan. 10 years ago this very day I asked him to go on our first date - we went and played putt-putt at the course in Aggieland (and had to hit more crickets and junebugs than balls), and then talked for hours in his car at Research Park. Who would have thought 10 years later we would be waiting for the arrival of our first child? What an amazing decade we have had together! Interestingly enough Ry and I started dating then, and never even broke up - we've been together since.
You are my best friend sweetie - I couldn't imagine my life without you! Thanks again for going out with me 10 years ago!! I love you!!
Friday, June 27, 2008
D + 8...
Well, need to take that 41 week pregnancy photo...got to keep the records accurate!
Two-thirds of my guests have now left...kinda sad but now back to relaxing! Did do some walking yesterday (Ikea, Bath and Body Works, Babies R Us, Bed, Bath and Beyond...) and the lady at Babies R Us kept telling me that the baby could come any time, even right now. I told her that was fine with me!
Not much going on today, probably just going to tidy the house, plan the baptism party, and get a few things organized. I did find an interesting study for those of y'all with kids of walking age... A $100 Visa gift card sounds good for 1 1/2 hours of work...
Happy Friday!
Two-thirds of my guests have now left...kinda sad but now back to relaxing! Did do some walking yesterday (Ikea, Bath and Body Works, Babies R Us, Bed, Bath and Beyond...) and the lady at Babies R Us kept telling me that the baby could come any time, even right now. I told her that was fine with me!
Not much going on today, probably just going to tidy the house, plan the baptism party, and get a few things organized. I did find an interesting study for those of y'all with kids of walking age... A $100 Visa gift card sounds good for 1 1/2 hours of work...
CWT Group is conducting a focus group for moms, dads and their babies (ages 9-16 months) to test a new product that helps infants and parents during the “learning to walk” phase. The focus group will host two sessions on Wednesday, July 2nd from 9:30am-11:00am and 11:30-1:00pm in central Austin. Parents will only need to attend one session. They will receive a $100 Visa gift card and product for participating. If you are interested and have a baby who pulls-up and hangs onto things to walk, or can take a step or two, e-mail Lydia at walkinginfo@gmail.com or call (512) 968-6642. To see more details, click here.
Happy Friday!
Thursday, June 26, 2008
D + 7...
Good morning. Sorry to keep my loyal readers hanging last night. With the parents, grandparents, my brother and sister in town, I had a full house! Thank God they are not all staying here!! My mom made my favorite meal, Hawaiian Ham, and we just had fun catching up last night.
Well, onto the news you really want... still pregnant! Went and saw the doc yesterday. Did an ultrasound and baby is doing well. And I'm actually up 26 pounds with this pregnancy. That's good. I'm 2 cm now, and 75% effaced. We go back again on Monday if no baby has come. My grandparents aren't too happy (they've now been in Texas almost 10 days waiting for this baby), but know that babies come at their own time. Dad is taking them back up to Ft. Worth this afternoon, and Mom and Stephen (my brother) will stay until Sunday. We will have a few days alone, and if little pumpkin has not made his/her entrance, looks like I'll be induced next Wednesday (you know, we have to work around the holiday weekend and all).
Knowing all this has given me peace of mind. At least I know by this time next week I'll be holding my baby! How amazing is that! And knowing there is an end in sight makes dealing with these pregnancy discomforts more bearable. I did tell my doc that "I've been working very hard on relaxing." He seems surprised on my answer, but said I'm doing good and now I just have to watch more movies!
Thanks again for all the comments, thoughts and prayers. Looks like this daily blog may have to continue for a few more days!
Well, onto the news you really want... still pregnant! Went and saw the doc yesterday. Did an ultrasound and baby is doing well. And I'm actually up 26 pounds with this pregnancy. That's good. I'm 2 cm now, and 75% effaced. We go back again on Monday if no baby has come. My grandparents aren't too happy (they've now been in Texas almost 10 days waiting for this baby), but know that babies come at their own time. Dad is taking them back up to Ft. Worth this afternoon, and Mom and Stephen (my brother) will stay until Sunday. We will have a few days alone, and if little pumpkin has not made his/her entrance, looks like I'll be induced next Wednesday (you know, we have to work around the holiday weekend and all).
Knowing all this has given me peace of mind. At least I know by this time next week I'll be holding my baby! How amazing is that! And knowing there is an end in sight makes dealing with these pregnancy discomforts more bearable. I did tell my doc that "I've been working very hard on relaxing." He seems surprised on my answer, but said I'm doing good and now I just have to watch more movies!
Thanks again for all the comments, thoughts and prayers. Looks like this daily blog may have to continue for a few more days!
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
D + 6...
Thanks for all the comments and prayers! Loaded up on the spicy food Rich! Had Tex-Mex for lunch and dinner!! My grandmother really wants to meet her newest great-grandchild, but I have a feeling that won't happen.
Had a great visit with my grandparents last night. My dad is #2 of 12 kids. When we have reunions and all, It is hard to spend time with them. It was fun hearing stories about her labors (like how she ran to catch a bus and went into labor, and that uncle is a big runner), or how she had the family vote on a name (but then didn't name the child that name). I'm looking forward to asking more questions today. They are in their mid-80's, so I don't think we will doing much walking or venturing out.
Stephen, my brother, came in last night from Chile. How great to see him! That boy never changes! Tonight my sister Tessa comes in for the night and will bring in Charlie the dog for the weekend. That will be a nice distraction too!
Guess my activity today is just spending time with them. Have an appointment with Dr. Love this afternoon, so I may update twice today...
Had a great visit with my grandparents last night. My dad is #2 of 12 kids. When we have reunions and all, It is hard to spend time with them. It was fun hearing stories about her labors (like how she ran to catch a bus and went into labor, and that uncle is a big runner), or how she had the family vote on a name (but then didn't name the child that name). I'm looking forward to asking more questions today. They are in their mid-80's, so I don't think we will doing much walking or venturing out.
Stephen, my brother, came in last night from Chile. How great to see him! That boy never changes! Tonight my sister Tessa comes in for the night and will bring in Charlie the dog for the weekend. That will be a nice distraction too!
Guess my activity today is just spending time with them. Have an appointment with Dr. Love this afternoon, so I may update twice today...
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
D + 5...
What can I say - still pregnant! Going to the doc tomorrow, so we'll see what he says! Did go walking around Ikea last night - Ry even made me go at a faster walk - I don't think I've been that fast in weeks.
Today my parents and grandparents are coming. It is also a special day - my parents 36th wedding anniversary! It makes it easy for me and Ry since our parents' anniversaries are both 30 years after ours. My mom is bringing down my grandparents this afternoon and my dad is bringing my brother Stephen (from Chile!) this evening. They don't even get to have dinner together on their anniversary!
This day is also Ry's grandfather's birthday - Happy Birthday Grandpa Mc! What a wonderful man! He's always treated me like one of his own - I've had an old sweater of his, kinda like a Mr. Rogers sweater, that I've kept at work for years. It was a nice way to remember him and all he has done for me and Ry. Looking forward to seeing them in the coming weeks too!
For my "event" for the day, I'm going down to see my friend Lisa in South Austin. She had her 3rd son, Andrew James, on Father's Day. We shared our pregnancies this time, and I'm looking forward to meeting her son. Maybe it will convince little pumpkin it's time to join the rest of us.
Well, last night I did it. I finally told Ry I think I'm ready to have this baby! He said I just look so cute and pregnant! What a nice husband! Well, everyone is on their way here now, and even my sister called to say her big test is over so I can tell pumpkin he/she can come... Everyone is giving little pumpkin advice. If he/she is anything like his momma, he/she's not going to listen...
Today my parents and grandparents are coming. It is also a special day - my parents 36th wedding anniversary! It makes it easy for me and Ry since our parents' anniversaries are both 30 years after ours. My mom is bringing down my grandparents this afternoon and my dad is bringing my brother Stephen (from Chile!) this evening. They don't even get to have dinner together on their anniversary!
This day is also Ry's grandfather's birthday - Happy Birthday Grandpa Mc! What a wonderful man! He's always treated me like one of his own - I've had an old sweater of his, kinda like a Mr. Rogers sweater, that I've kept at work for years. It was a nice way to remember him and all he has done for me and Ry. Looking forward to seeing them in the coming weeks too!
For my "event" for the day, I'm going down to see my friend Lisa in South Austin. She had her 3rd son, Andrew James, on Father's Day. We shared our pregnancies this time, and I'm looking forward to meeting her son. Maybe it will convince little pumpkin it's time to join the rest of us.
Well, last night I did it. I finally told Ry I think I'm ready to have this baby! He said I just look so cute and pregnant! What a nice husband! Well, everyone is on their way here now, and even my sister called to say her big test is over so I can tell pumpkin he/she can come... Everyone is giving little pumpkin advice. If he/she is anything like his momma, he/she's not going to listen...
Monday, June 23, 2008
D + 4...
Well, we did it! We went to the movies! Ry had seen Indiana Jones the weekend it came out (he's a *huge* fan), and has been wanting to take me ever since. So, we went yesterday. And had the works - movie, popcorn and coke! yea! It was an entertaining movie - campy at times, but kept your attention. My friend Rowena went into labor the day after she saw the movie, so we'll see what happens today...
Yesterday I had 2 really interesting moments. It's amazing to me to see how other people react to my pregnancy. Often times we hear how as a culture people are not pro-life. That everyone is pro-choice, and if you are pro-life you are a minority.
Well, when giving the sign of peace yesterday in Mass, a woman took a double-take with me. She said "peace be with you", and then said "both of you", with a big grin on her face. The second time this happened was when this teenage boy was taking my ticket at the movies. He said "thank you" and then paused and said "sorry, thank Y'all!
So, in our pro-death society that we live in, when does this tissue inside my body change from being just tissue to a baby? Is it that I'm overdue? Is it that people can see and tell that I'm pregnant? Or does the media get it wrong? Are most people pro-life?
I have been overwhelmed how positive people have been toward me during this pregnancy - overly polite, opening doors, getting out of my way, offering to help, not letting me carry my groceries, etc. It has given me a renewed sense of the pro-life climate in our culture. How wonderful!!
Today's activity is to go to the Mommies group at our church, and get some last-minute errands done. Found out yesterday that my parents, grandparents, brother and sister are coming tomorrow. I need to remind them that I have to relax - doctor's orders!
Lastly, today is my ultrasound/charting due date (which I feel is more accurate). We'll see what happens today...
Yesterday I had 2 really interesting moments. It's amazing to me to see how other people react to my pregnancy. Often times we hear how as a culture people are not pro-life. That everyone is pro-choice, and if you are pro-life you are a minority.
Well, when giving the sign of peace yesterday in Mass, a woman took a double-take with me. She said "peace be with you", and then said "both of you", with a big grin on her face. The second time this happened was when this teenage boy was taking my ticket at the movies. He said "thank you" and then paused and said "sorry, thank Y'all!
So, in our pro-death society that we live in, when does this tissue inside my body change from being just tissue to a baby? Is it that I'm overdue? Is it that people can see and tell that I'm pregnant? Or does the media get it wrong? Are most people pro-life?
I have been overwhelmed how positive people have been toward me during this pregnancy - overly polite, opening doors, getting out of my way, offering to help, not letting me carry my groceries, etc. It has given me a renewed sense of the pro-life climate in our culture. How wonderful!!
Today's activity is to go to the Mommies group at our church, and get some last-minute errands done. Found out yesterday that my parents, grandparents, brother and sister are coming tomorrow. I need to remind them that I have to relax - doctor's orders!
Lastly, today is my ultrasound/charting due date (which I feel is more accurate). We'll see what happens today...
Sunday, June 22, 2008
D + 3...
Well, we have had a nice, relaxing weekend. The Round Rock Farmers' Market was fun - got some great tomatoes, basil, and mojito mint (Ry made mine a virgin - yum!). Went walking around - the market, Lowe's and Sam's, and little pumpkin is nice and cozy. I've been asked what my prediction is for this baby - I'm thinking late next week...I wish he/she would come before the 27th (my grandparents are visiting from Alaska until then), but I'm not sure. My ultrasound and charting due date is tomorrow, which I think is a much more accurate date than the LMP.
Not much on the plans for today. I kinda feel like a baby - a little activity in the morning (Mass), lunch, naptime, etc. Ry has really wanted to take me to see the Indiana Jones movie (and that worked for my friend Rowena, she had her son the next day), so we may head to the movies this afternoon.
Hopefully, if we do make it to my doc appointment on Wednesday, my doc will comment on me being un-uptight! Really working on it!!
Not much on the plans for today. I kinda feel like a baby - a little activity in the morning (Mass), lunch, naptime, etc. Ry has really wanted to take me to see the Indiana Jones movie (and that worked for my friend Rowena, she had her son the next day), so we may head to the movies this afternoon.
Hopefully, if we do make it to my doc appointment on Wednesday, my doc will comment on me being un-uptight! Really working on it!!
Saturday, June 21, 2008
D + 2...
Well, pumpkin seems nice and cozy, not sure if he/she is coming out any time soon...
We have been quite popular this last week - calls from all over the world! My cousin Julie in New Zealand (can't wait to see you in July), my brother Stephen in Chile (can't wait to see you next week), my aunt Geri in Holland (yea, we see y'all next Saturday), and last night one of my best friends Christina from Australia (now when are you visiting... :-)! Seems like I've been chatting lots on the phone!
Well, Sharon is really trying to win the contest I posted yesterday. We had a great walk around the pond near our house, fed the ducks with her 3 kids, which was really great! Thanks Sharon! Feel free to continue to post your votes for the gender and due date of the bambino...
Not much else going on. Still trying to not be "uptight". Today we are heading out to the Round Rock Farmers' Market. I didn't even know until last week that this existed. Should be interesting, and maybe we can even get some tomatoes!!
Please also keep in your prayers 2 other new mommas, my friends Anne-Marie and Andrea. We are all due within a week of each other with our first babies. Anne-Marie's due date is today, Andrea's is Monday. We have had a cyber-pregnancy support group these past 9 months that has been very helpful. Good luck ladies! Can't wait to hear your good news!
Until tomorrow...or earlier :-)
We have been quite popular this last week - calls from all over the world! My cousin Julie in New Zealand (can't wait to see you in July), my brother Stephen in Chile (can't wait to see you next week), my aunt Geri in Holland (yea, we see y'all next Saturday), and last night one of my best friends Christina from Australia (now when are you visiting... :-)! Seems like I've been chatting lots on the phone!
Well, Sharon is really trying to win the contest I posted yesterday. We had a great walk around the pond near our house, fed the ducks with her 3 kids, which was really great! Thanks Sharon! Feel free to continue to post your votes for the gender and due date of the bambino...
Not much else going on. Still trying to not be "uptight". Today we are heading out to the Round Rock Farmers' Market. I didn't even know until last week that this existed. Should be interesting, and maybe we can even get some tomatoes!!
Please also keep in your prayers 2 other new mommas, my friends Anne-Marie and Andrea. We are all due within a week of each other with our first babies. Anne-Marie's due date is today, Andrea's is Monday. We have had a cyber-pregnancy support group these past 9 months that has been very helpful. Good luck ladies! Can't wait to hear your good news!
Until tomorrow...or earlier :-)
Friday, June 20, 2008
D + 1...
Well, the due date came and went. Had a nice relaxing (albeit lazy) day. Will try to do that again today, but it's harder that it seems... a few episodes of Law & Order, surfing the net, long showers, well I guess I could get used to this!
Thanks for the suggestions yesterday. The 6 hour Pride and Prejudice does sound good - I may venture out to get it today. Otherwise, it may just be a Bridget Jones marathon!
Last night Ry and I had a wonderful dinner at one of our favorite place, the Melting Pot. I'm soo glad I found a guy who loves fondue! I've loved it for years, and it is a great way to have a nice, long, romantic dinner. We were imagining going there once pumpkin arrives, and seating him or her in the booth between us! It was nice to have an evening just to ponder and focus on these past 40 weeks, and on the journey it took us to get here.
So, since y'all have been soo good at commenting, I have another question. Let's have a poll on the gender and birth date of our little pumpkin (I know many of y'all have strong feelings about this). So comment with that info, and the time of birth and weight, if you feel so inclined. I guess I could throw in a nice pic of the baby as a prize :-)
Thanks for the suggestions yesterday. The 6 hour Pride and Prejudice does sound good - I may venture out to get it today. Otherwise, it may just be a Bridget Jones marathon!
Last night Ry and I had a wonderful dinner at one of our favorite place, the Melting Pot. I'm soo glad I found a guy who loves fondue! I've loved it for years, and it is a great way to have a nice, long, romantic dinner. We were imagining going there once pumpkin arrives, and seating him or her in the booth between us! It was nice to have an evening just to ponder and focus on these past 40 weeks, and on the journey it took us to get here.
So, since y'all have been soo good at commenting, I have another question. Let's have a poll on the gender and birth date of our little pumpkin (I know many of y'all have strong feelings about this). So comment with that info, and the time of birth and weight, if you feel so inclined. I guess I could throw in a nice pic of the baby as a prize :-)
Thursday, June 19, 2008
D-Day...
Well, today is the due date day. Doesn't seem like little pumpkin will be making his/her arrival anytime soon.
To help me relax and cure my "uptightness" that my doc called it, we will just be relaxing at the house today. No water aerobics, no errands. Maybe even read a non-baby book!
And Kathryn, to comment on your comment from yesterday, he has delivered many babies. Should take his recommendations. Kinda hard for a type A person like me. I feel like I'm just being lazy. Don't have War and Peace, but do have a few other books. Now just to find a comfortable reading position.
Thanks for the thoughts and prayers. Was a little overwhelmed yesterday. I am soo honored to be pumpkin's mom - I just can't wait to meet him or her! That time will come, eventually :-)
Any suggestions on helping me be less "uptight"? What did you do when you were waiting for your babies to come? Did schedule a nice "date night' for tonight - fondue at the Melting Pot! yum!
To help me relax and cure my "uptightness" that my doc called it, we will just be relaxing at the house today. No water aerobics, no errands. Maybe even read a non-baby book!
And Kathryn, to comment on your comment from yesterday, he has delivered many babies. Should take his recommendations. Kinda hard for a type A person like me. I feel like I'm just being lazy. Don't have War and Peace, but do have a few other books. Now just to find a comfortable reading position.
Thanks for the thoughts and prayers. Was a little overwhelmed yesterday. I am soo honored to be pumpkin's mom - I just can't wait to meet him or her! That time will come, eventually :-)
Any suggestions on helping me be less "uptight"? What did you do when you were waiting for your babies to come? Did schedule a nice "date night' for tonight - fondue at the Melting Pot! yum!
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
1 down...
9 cm to go! Well, we are progressing, but I thought I would be much farther along at this point (massage, water aerobics, full moon...). Kinda disappointed. Well, very disappointed. Also, the check was a little more uncomfortable than I thought, so getting kinda nervous about this whole labor thing. Say a few extra prayers...this momma's doesn't know what to expect or how I'm going to handle it! And to top that, my doc says I'm doing too much and need to relax. He said just get a book and read. Doesn't he understand how difficult it is for me to lay and read!! Men! Doctors! argh!
FYI, the ultrasound due date is June 22/23...so I'm trying not to get all worked up. And I was 3 weeks late, although my doc will only let me go 2 weeks (July!!).
St. Gerard, pray for us.
St. Gianna, pray for us.
FYI, the ultrasound due date is June 22/23...so I'm trying not to get all worked up. And I was 3 weeks late, although my doc will only let me go 2 weeks (July!!).
St. Gerard, pray for us.
St. Gianna, pray for us.
1 day...
Well, as I try not to think that tomorrow is my due date, I'm going to keep myself busy today. So as not to keep my readers in suspense, just want to let you know I did not go into labor last night. Going to finish some freezer meals this morning, have lunch with my good friend Robin, and then head to my doc appointment to see how things are progressing. Had a great massage last night, and she hit all the labor pressure points! We'll see if that works! You may be lucky and get 2 posts today...
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
2 days...
Wow - 2 days! But, could be up to 16 - my doc says we'll talk about inducing at 42 weeks. So, this daily update may continue for awhile! I did do my water aerobics today, and am off to a massage in an hour...maybe that will get things progressing!!
Yesterday my friends Kathryn and Amber commented about having their children around the full moon. According to the Farmer's Almanac the next full moon is tomorrow - June 18! We'll see if that prediction runs true for us...
I did find an article to substantiate this, but most of the scientific studies state that this is mostly it is an old wives tale. Here is the article's reasoning:
Well, if I do go into labor, I'll try to have Ry post something here. Otherwise, if I'm not posting, you know what I'm doing!
Yesterday my friends Kathryn and Amber commented about having their children around the full moon. According to the Farmer's Almanac the next full moon is tomorrow - June 18! We'll see if that prediction runs true for us...
I did find an article to substantiate this, but most of the scientific studies state that this is mostly it is an old wives tale. Here is the article's reasoning:
The theory is that the moon's gravitational pull effects the amniotic fluid in much the same way as it effects the water in the sea, rivers and even the water that's otherwise found in our bodies.
As a woman's body prepares for natural childbirth, the amniotic sac becomes distended so the point where it will easily burst if put under pressure. Under normal circumstances, the pressure of labor contractions bursts the sac. During a full moon, the pressure caused by the moon's effect on the water inside the sac can cause the same things to happen, but without the accompanying contractions.
Well, if I do go into labor, I'll try to have Ry post something here. Otherwise, if I'm not posting, you know what I'm doing!
Monday, June 16, 2008
3 days...
Wow, 3 days? Really? I guess one thing about being "retired" is you never know what the date is. I know what day of the week it is, but not the date...
One assignment we had in our Bradley class was to write down activities to do for the week prior and 2 weeks after our due date. It's to help keep your mind off just waiting, and plan for other things.
So, today's activity: have lunch with my former roomie! yea! I had lunch with a former roomie Teri who I lived with my sophomore and junior years at A&M. She just moved back to Austin and we hadn't seen each other in several years. And today was her birthday - so happy birthday my friend!
Then I also spent some time chatting with my friend Sharon and she gave me a bundle of cloth diapers. Yea! Pumpkin is getting all stocked up!
I forgot to post yesterday of this strange comment I got while in line at Rudy's. This woman commented that I was "huge" and must be having twins. When I told her it was just one, she said the baby had to be 10 pounds!! Can you believe it! I have only put on about 23 pounds this entire pregnancy! And that someone would tell a stranger that. And it wasn't that she didn't have children, she was holding a child. Oh please, no 10 pound baby for me! please...
Ry thought it was weird too that when we were at Starbucks yesterday, the cashier leaned over the counter to touch my belly! I should have at least gotten a free drink out of that!
I guess I should consider myself lucky. Haven't been stopped with the crazy birthing stories from strangers, or gotten many other pats on the belly. There is a full moon coming, maybe that's why people were acting so strange...
One assignment we had in our Bradley class was to write down activities to do for the week prior and 2 weeks after our due date. It's to help keep your mind off just waiting, and plan for other things.
So, today's activity: have lunch with my former roomie! yea! I had lunch with a former roomie Teri who I lived with my sophomore and junior years at A&M. She just moved back to Austin and we hadn't seen each other in several years. And today was her birthday - so happy birthday my friend!
Then I also spent some time chatting with my friend Sharon and she gave me a bundle of cloth diapers. Yea! Pumpkin is getting all stocked up!
I forgot to post yesterday of this strange comment I got while in line at Rudy's. This woman commented that I was "huge" and must be having twins. When I told her it was just one, she said the baby had to be 10 pounds!! Can you believe it! I have only put on about 23 pounds this entire pregnancy! And that someone would tell a stranger that. And it wasn't that she didn't have children, she was holding a child. Oh please, no 10 pound baby for me! please...
Ry thought it was weird too that when we were at Starbucks yesterday, the cashier leaned over the counter to touch my belly! I should have at least gotten a free drink out of that!
I guess I should consider myself lucky. Haven't been stopped with the crazy birthing stories from strangers, or gotten many other pats on the belly. There is a full moon coming, maybe that's why people were acting so strange...
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